At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep other people out, they fence you in. You can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. If you are willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance, the view from the other side is spectacular.
Life is all about balance, be it in relationships or even at work. Too much or too little can kill. The best way to balance life is setting your boundaries and learning to say enough. So what really is a boundary?
A boundary is a definite place where your responsibility ends and another person’s begins. It stops you from doing things for others that they should do for themselves. It prevents you from rescuing someone from the consequences of their action or behaviour that they need to experience in order to grow.
In certain other situations, boundaries may not be all about others, it may be limits that you set for yourselves, the ones we often create for ourselves in our minds.
But wait… haven’t we always been told to push ourselves beyond boundaries to experience our true potential? Yes, we definitely have been told so. Personal boundaries, at times are imaginary or the constraints you set for yourself, and they separate you from what you intended to achieve. (Read More)
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